Remembering Michael Costello

As most of you know by now, Michael passed away last week.  Needless to say, it was an extremely sad and emotional time for all of us.  While I know how trite this will sound, these situations should reinforce that we must live life to the fullest.

While several of my blogs have been riddled with sadness, this one will not in any way provoke that emotion.  In fact, this is my “joyous” blog.   There were so many amazing parts of Michael’s passing.  We witnessed miracles, families reunited, and forgiveness given.  We experienced the joy of listening to all the wonderful tributes paid to Michael.

The overwhelming words to describe Michael were consistent.  He was a “gentle man” who never said an unkind word about anyone.  He was a fair, just man.  He had a tremendous love for his wife Kris and his family. He was a great leader for his UndercoverWear team.  Yes, Michael was indeed a precious gift – one of a kind.

Of course, it made me ponder about my life.  What will my legacy be? 

Of course, I am very proud of Jamie. That goes without saying.  And certainly, I have contributed to the success of UndercoverWear.   The “glitz and glamour” of UndercoverWear has always been fun for me.  But that has never been my “driving force” in UndercoverWear or in life.  I truly believe I was put on this Earth to help woman create a better life.  It’s that simple.  I also hope that I have been able to offer a shoulder to cry on, a hand to walk with, and a quiet strength when needed.  I know I have been a good daughter, wife and mother.  I hope I have been a good friend and mentor.  I hope I have given myself in abundance.  I hope that I have shared as much as I have received.  I hope that those who felt “wronged” have forgiven me.  I hope that those who love me know that I love them in return.  I hope that I can live the rest of my life with humility, grace, and of course elegance.

I had the pleasure of being with Michael before he died.  I had the joy of hearing all the wonderful words shared about his life. And I will take that tiny part of his legacy and hopefully make it part of my own.  Thank you Michael for this final gift.