One Minute Lover

 One Minute Lover

A “One Minute Lover” isn’t someone who creates a sexual experience in one minute or less. Of course, it can take just one minute to have sex, but creating a lover can take a lifetime.

My “One Minute Lover” concept involves doing simple things every day to create a warm, caring feeling within your relationship. The best part? Most of these things take only a minute or so!

Let’s start with a few basic things you can do to make him feel really special!

 

1.      Bring home his favorite donut           

2.      Buy some cheese in a can and serve him crackers with a smiley face. (Corny but really cute.)

3.      Watch sports on TV with him. (Bonus: Actually learn about the sport.)

Pat Bowlen, owner of the Denver Broncos, always wants to sit next to me at functions. Why?  No, not because of my wit and charm, but because he can talk football with me.

4.      Pick up some sports napkins and use them at dinner.

5.      Write, “I love you,” in lipstick on the mirror. (Bonus: Don’t forget to seal it with a kiss.)

6.      Make him his favorite sandwich in advance and put it in the fridge.

7.      Tuck in little note in his drawer just saying you love him.

8.      Pick up some of his “manly” stuff like deodorant, hair products, etc.

9.      Pick up some McDonalds gift certificates as a surprise

10.  Chill his favorite beer glass

11.  Go to his favorite place for dinner (even if it’s not yours).

For example:  my husband loves Rob Lobster. Me, not-so-much. But, I always give him a Red Lobster GC for Christmas or his birthday to ensure that we go.

12.  Be really nice to his parents and relatives

13.  Buy him a 6 pack of beers from around the world.

14.  Pick up his dirty socks once without complaining.

15.  Call him at work just to say, “I Love You.”

16.  Buy him his favorite childhood dessert, like a Twinkie.

17.  Kiss him good morning.

18.  Kiss him good night.

19.  Rub his leg when your having dinner (Bonus: Especially when you’re out with friends.)

20.  Lean over and give him a little “nothing peck” often. (Bonus: Be sure to do so when you’re out with his friends or relatives.)

21.  Hold his hand when walking.

22.  Thank him for the nice things he does for you. 

My husband always fills my car with gas. I always tell him how grateful I am.

23.  LISTEN intently when he’s talking. (Bonus: Don’t interrupt him or correct him) That’s a tough one for most women!

As I’ve said before – we sometimes take our relationship for granted. We get comfortable and while that’s nice, we should also make sure we put that extra effort into showing how much we appreciate our relationships. Don’t put more time and energy into your girlfriends than you do into your lover – not for one minute!

I’d love to hear from you!  Share this with all your friends online and tell us what your “One Minute Lover” tips…